What a lot of guys don’t understand coming into college is that approaching women becomes a lot different than it was in Highschool. Here we give you insight over the main key differences you should keep in mind and go over how to talk to a girl that you like in college.
SNAPCHAT IS NOT THE MOVE ANYMORE
Stop using Snapchat as your way to flirt with girls. Yes obviously you will still Snapchat girls, but if you really want to hang out with a girl, don’t beat around the bush on snap and expect something to happen. Text them and be direct when you want to hang out. Girls are much more mature in college, you can’t just pull girls by spitting Snapchat game all day anymore.
GIRLS LOVE IN PERSON INTERACTIONS
Stop hitting up girls online and on social media. Girls love in-person interactions. Go up to them in person. approach her after class, at the gym, at the bar, or at parties and get her number. It will set you apart and they will see you as bold and confident, which is exactly what they want in a guy.
YOU MUST MAKE THE FIRST MOVE
Boys, in college, the days of girls being the one to hit y’all up is over. I promise you, they will absolutely always expect the guy to make the first move in college. She may even like you a lot but she still WILL NOT make the move first. College girls are grown women, they want the man to take charge.
STOP TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF THEY ARE INTERESTED OR NOT
You’ll come to realize that trying to figure out if a girl is into you from Snapchat response times and story likes is an impossible game. You simply will never know what’s going on in her head so it’s a waste of time trying to figure it out. The only way you will truly know if she is into you or not is if you shoot your shot (respectfully of course).
Although some of these may seem like common sense, you would be surprised at how much these tips can set you apart from other guys. There are many other factors that go into how you should approach girls in college, but from our first hand experience, we have concluded that these 4 tips are the most important things you need to keep in mind. We hope these helped and make sure to subscribe to see our upcoming posts that go over more specifically on How to Talk to Girls at Parties and How to Start Conversations With a Girl on Text.