Nights out with the boys are always fun, but let’s be honest, the main reason dudes like going to the bar is to scope out the girls. The goal of the night is to at least get a girl’s number or snap, but sometimes that doesn’t always happen. What ruins it for most dudes is that they don’t have the confidence to just approach a girl at the bar. I know it’s scary to approach a girl knowing they can either like you or not, it is always going to be 50/50 in that scenario, but to be honest, those are about as good as the odds are going to get. It really isn’t the end of the world by just going up to a girl and starting a random conversation. Most girls want guys to do that anyway, but will never be upfront about it.
Enough is enough, stop sitting in a circle with the boys talking about how hot she is, if you think she’s so hot, then do something about it. Think about it like this, you might think, “oh man what is she going to think about me?” but instead you could be thinking, “Will I even like this girl once I get to talk to her?” Once you flip the script and think about it in a different perspective, you are, in a way, already in control of the situation. This takes the pressure off your mind and gives you the confidence you need.
Now is this going to work every time? The answer is no. Obviously you are going to be rejected at some point but that is how the game works. It’s like saying, “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” if you aren’t even trying, then there is no way you will get that girl’s attention. So in the future, the next time you see an attractive girl at a bar or party, just approach her bro, you never know where the night will take you if you don’t take the chance.